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Thursday, February 18, 2010

A man blogging...Yeah, I blog, I love it and this is why I do it.

Blogging.  What is it?  You ask different people and you will get different answers.  My wife blogs (MyCrazy4 ) to chronicle our 4 C's lives in photos and in a beautiful storybook setting. ....

Not me.  I started blogging in December because I thought it would be a neat thing to,  do to show a different side of my life as a husband and a father.  Everyone knows that dads do shit  differently than moms, and alot of times not nearly as good. 

I don't handle shit as calmly as T does.  Everything from getting snack, to helping with homeschooling and god forbid I have to change a f-ing diaper.  I would rather jump in a bathtub full of pee-pee than have to change my little C4's diaper.

A big reason for blogging to me is that this is a HUGE stress reliever.  I work for a repo company and I work long hours.  I get up early and drive and hour to work and sit at my desk from 8:30 am to 8 pm and then drive an hour back home.  I get home anywhere from 9 to 9:30 pm and get little time to spend with the C's.  Thank god T homeschools so the kids can stay up later and it gives me a chance to hang with them.  My job sucks.  A family owned company and I have been here 8 years and all I get is one week vacation and no sick days.  I bust my ass for this place and all I get is a pay cut which lost me 20k from last year to this year and guess what...I am still here EVERYDAY.  I used to love working for the company but now it is just a job to have to keep the family afloat.  I love what I do, finding people who don't pay for their cars and then sending drivers out to snatch em' up.  But........I am getting back to a place in my life where I was so unhappy and depressed everyday and it is because of this place.  So what to do?  I guess I will find out one way or another.

My wife T is another reason I blog.  She is so f-ing awesome and I am not saying that because I am scared of her and I am trying to be on her good side....Truth be told, I am scared of her.....scared of her leaving me...No really, T is a hard working woman.  She worked 3 jobs to help pay for her own wedding, and has always been a hard worker, where I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth, certain people may not agree but it is true.  She busts her ass to make sure everything is taken care of at home.  She is very passionate about everything she does for the C's and if you read her blog you will see what I mean.  She has never been into drinking or smoking or drugs or any kind of addiction where I have been hooked on painkillers, weed, steroids, and have now been sober for a year.  She is a great woman and I am lucky to be married to her.  I try to be a good husband and do right be her and part of the reason for that is I always saw how my dad treated my mom. My dad showed me how a good man treats his wife.

My wonderful C's are a very big part of why I blog.  I love my kids and love them more each day.  My oldest C1, has the creativity that I love and that all kids should have.  C2 has the strong willed nature that will never let him give up on anything.  C3, just like her mommy.  Can really piss me off and make me want to punch myself in the face, but I can't ever stay mad at that girl.  C4, so happy and lights up the room with his smile and I love to see him get excited when I get home.  I don't think I am a good dad, just yet.  I have alot of work to do and a lot of growing to do.

Sometimes when I feel empty or blank inside I will even go to some outside sources or writing services such as these  Article Writing Services and get great ideas. You would be surprised at what you can come up with.

I blog about shit I like from sports, to entertainment and just shit in general.  I am a goofy clown.  I try to be funny so often and sometimes it comes out wrong.. For instance, I love T's ass. Well I love all of her buTT (get it BUTT-ASS) I am a ASS MAN.  I have a bad habit of grabbing her ass ALL THE TIME. Very disrespectful and T lets me know and I have gotten better, but C2 a while back smacked T's best friend LM on the ass.  Not good.

I started this blogging stuff and T had to constantly remind me that I was doing this for me and us (family) not to worry and or care what others think. Took me a minute but I really don't care if people like what I say or not.  I love to flatter my wife and boast about my kids and I am a sappy, sentimental, sensitive mutha f-er.  I do appreciate all the people who have chosen to read my blog and those who have helped me do little things to mke it more eye appealing.  So if you like it...........Thanks and come anytime, if you don't Thanks and come anytime, I love to talk shit and get into it with people.

In ending there is a certain person that T and I met many months ago that really made me look at things in a different light. His family was going through some things that made me realize that I need to be happy for what I have and not what I want.   I still struggle with alot of things in my daily life but this blog is an outlet and I am going to continue to write about my journey.

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7 comments:

Nikki B. February 18, 2010 at 2:16 PM   Reply to

you guys are awesome! that's a lot of lucky C's you have!!

This Daddy February 18, 2010 at 2:23 PM   Reply to

Thanks Nikki. You are awesome too. Did you look at the video I sent to your email.

Heather February 18, 2010 at 2:59 PM   Reply to

Congrats on your year. That is awesome! I have had my blog for over a year now and I still am afraid to put some things on it that I really wish I could get off my chest. I just dont want to upset someone who might read it. I wish that I had the nerve to do it but I am not ready to let the lion out of the cage right now.

Thanks though for your blog. It makes me laugh quite often.

Oh yeah, women really don't like being slapped on their butt. :)

roadrunner201 February 18, 2010 at 9:44 PM   Reply to

My dad works for a family owned company that sells boat trailers and I know he loved the job when he started, but I think feels similarly about it now. And it's a scary economy to even think about changing jobs. I hope things get better.

goofdad February 19, 2010 at 2:47 PM   Reply to

Finding more dads that blog is wonderful. I found you through MckDaddy's blog, and I'm glad I did. I need to go back and read a few more of your old ones, but so far I really like your style!

Just don't go around telling everyone your 4 are a handful. I've got more than you and MckDaddy put together ...

Honestly, though, you look to have a great crew. Thanks for sharing!

This Daddy February 19, 2010 at 2:55 PM   Reply to

Thanks Lisa and I hope things get better too. Guess we will see. If they dont your husband may be talking me off of Stone Mountain

@Goofdad- Holy shit. More than both of us. Are you married to Kate or Mrs Drugger?

goofdad February 19, 2010 at 3:36 PM   Reply to

LOL ... neither. Heck, with 4 step kids from my wife's previous marriage, I knew I was gonna have a large family! With the son I just took in, we now have 9.

I wouldn't trade a single one of them, though. They are each, is some special way, a light in the darkness for me!

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