On Friday I said that this weeks the post would be dedicated to my wife T, since this Friday is our 11 year wedding anniversary. Now she is going to hate me talking nothing but nice all week about her, so I will have to mix in some bad in all this good. So here we go with
Day 1 - My Hard Worker
Never has a woman made me feel this special inside and out. She is the reason I try to be a better person, husband, father and friend. And when I feel like I am failing at any of those, I feel bad, like I am letting her down.
If you look up the definition of "Hard Worker" in the dictionary you are going to see a picture of T. Well maybe not a picture, she hats having her picture taken. You will see many things describing her and why she is a "Hard Worker" It can go back to her working 3 jobs while we were engaged to make sure she had the Wedding she wanted. It could be her working till 3 am as a waitress after we were married to help us get more money for a down payment on our first house together.
She worked hard at getting pregnant, or is that played hard to get pregnant? I'm not sure. Either way, that was awesome and not so hard. Each of the four times, it all got better. Why? Simply because she worked hard to make sure she knew exactly what she wanted and how she wanted it to go..From Birth Plans to breastfeeding she had it all down.
She works hard at keeping her schedule. Yeah that can be tough sometimes, but as everyone knows when you have kids, schedules are hard to stay on. She is a master planner. Writes it all down, lists here, lists there. Sticky notes on cabinets. She hardly forgets things, unless its her purse at a shop that is closed until 2 pm the next day. But she did remember where it was so...off the hook.
When it comes to money, she hates to spend it on herself and when she wants to spend it on the kids or groceries or stuff for the house, she will make sure she has a coupon for it and if she doesn't, she will find one. I don't know how many times I have bought something and had to take it back since I didn't have a coupon.
She works hard at studying things that will make us a happier, healthier and more successful family and home. She reads books and online stuff about organic living, green living. She reads and studies about vaccines and whats good and whats not. She does a lot of hard work to make sure that we all are living the best possible life we can and that we are happy.
The one thing that T doesn't have to work hard at...
Being a great wife.
Love ya honey.
KISS THE BABY