Nope, not me.
Being with T for over 12 years now and being married for 11 we have both come to realize that some things in our marriage and friendship are just never gonna change.
Like the fact that I am always trying to get some. ALWAYS. Im always being dirty. She now likes to call me "Dirty Ol Thang". I cant help it, she turns me on. I have come to realize that she hates when I try to come into the bathroom when she is in there. She might be doing makeup and I just want to brush my teeth or put my contacts in and she freaks out and locks the door.
She loves the fact that I always...ALWAYS go out of my way to aggravate her. I love the way she changes the radio station every time a song comes on that I like and start singing.
Well several months ago, T did something and it has started a new fun thing that we do for each other. I don't know if she likes it or thinks about it the same way that I do, but for me this thing she did added a new feature to our friendship and marriage. You know the little things that make a difference, the extra things that make you laugh, smile and just think about that other person.
She added a dry erase board in our closet. Classic. I love it. We started counting down our days to vacation. We added little faces and putting words on there for each other. You never know what the other is going to write on the board. I have put clothes near the erase board and then drew and arrow and written "Wear This". She has come out of the closet laughing and said "Im not wearing that and a TIE? And a BELT?" But we both laugh. Here is the latest that I wrote up there the other day
You love my ___________ So she added CHEST
I love your ____________ First I added EVERYTHING - She countered with PICK ONE
So I came back and added THIGHS
So this morning I get a tweet that says "Good Morning Thigh Lover" And that put the biggest smile on my face and I had to laugh.
See to me, that right there is just one of the many little things that can make a difference in a marriage. So if your BORED in your marriage and need to try something different, get a different kind of BOARD and see what happens.
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Nope, not me.